So You Just Broke Up With Your Future Nigerian Husband now what!!!
It is not the end of the world. You invest all of your time and effort and you feel like everything has gone down the drain– now what– what is a girl to do?–
Ladies, we have all been there at least once in our lives. You made your scrap books,talked about what you are going to name your children, introduced him to your family and you spent all of your quality time with him. You build equity in your feelings for him and finally those feelings are foreclosed.
I remember making every excuse.. Oh he is just too busy for me, Oh maybe he is having a bad day or my favorite excuse “We just need more time” and then finally the arguments and “out of no where” disagreements transcend. After you have made every excuse in the book, you need to reflect only on your own happiness as selfish as it made sound.
Kudos to you, you were faithful, loyal and very understanding. Unfortunately, he is not the one. Your good nature and spirit should be preserved for someone who deserves you. We all have one person out there dealing with similar issues, and now in 2008 it is time to own up to your future and stop making excuses.
It will be a hard struggle for you. Especially if you were those type of girl’s who cut everyone out of their life to invest all of their time into their fallen relationship. But, if you weren’t that type of girl who cut everyone off then you will be in better spirits than many.
Try to get out more and enjoy life. You never know who you will meet out there unless you are out having fun. Please have fun in moderation. Go to your favorite bookstore and pick up a new book. Organize clutter and other things surrounding you that make you either regress in your state of happiness or things that make you think of him. Most importantly consult with your close girl friends about a girl’s night out to somewhere sophisticated and chic.
Oh yeah and lastly ladies FORGET HIM!!!!–I think it is the best piece of advice I can give you.
